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‘How can you rebuild when your father is the worst sexual predator in decades?’: Pelicot’s daughter speaks; and Philippa Perry on the deceptive ‘spark’

Jan 11, 2025
Caroline Darian shares her harrowing experience as the daughter of Dominique Pelicot, a notorious sexual predator. She discusses the dual trauma of being both a victim’s child and the offspring of a perpetrator, revealing her journey from victim to advocate. Philippa Perry, a psychotherapist, emphasizes the need to seek stable relationships rather than be drawn to unhealthy dynamics. Their conversation highlights the emotional toll of trauma and the importance of societal change in supporting abuse survivors.
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ANECDOTE

Evidence And Convictions

  • Police found that Dominique Pellico drugged his wife, dressed her and filmed dozens of men raping her over many years.
  • He was sentenced to 20 years and dozens of other men were convicted, while at least 20 more remain unidentified.
INSIGHT

Turning Trauma Into Advocacy

  • Darian channels anger into public campaigning to raise awareness of drug-facilitated sexual violence.
  • She founded "Don't Put Me Under, Monde Or Pas" to normalise the term chemical submission and push systemic change.
ANECDOTE

Photos That Raised Terrifying Questions

  • Darian discovered deleted folders and photos of herself asleep that she didn't recognise, sparking certainty she had been drugged and probably abused.
  • Without video proof like her mother had, she felt like a forgotten victim locked in doubt and silence.
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