The Art of Charm

268: Jordan Gray | Keep Her Captivated

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May 30, 2014
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INSIGHT

What Partners Are Told Not To Give

  • Men and women are shamed away from giving what the other most needs, which creates mutual stalemate in relationships.
  • Women hide sexuality due to slut-shaming while men hide vulnerability, and both hide what would most satisfy their partner.
ADVICE

Use Five-Word Feedback In Bed

  • Give feedback during sex in under five words like "softer" or "more here" to avoid making your partner feel criticized.
  • Short, actionable cues preserve attraction and prevent long lectures that kill mood.
ADVICE

Start Dating Before You're 'Ready'

  • Stop waiting until you're 'optimized' to date; start practicing now because perfect timing never arrives.
  • Action and gradual growth trump endless preparation and mental masturbation about self-improvement.
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