The Feminist Present Episode 51: Sarah Manguso & the Liars marriage makes
Jul 17, 2024
Sarah Manguso, a celebrated poet and author of nine books, joins to discuss her latest work, 'Liars,' which strips down the harsh realities of marriage and normalized misogyny. She shares insights from her own tumultuous divorce during the pandemic, revealing how such experiences fuel creativity. The conversation dives into gender dynamics, the complexities of motherhood, and societal expectations on women, while also highlighting the rise of 'pandemic divorces.' Manguso's reflections challenge traditional narratives, making for a compelling listen.
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Childbirth Deepens Marital Entrapment
- After a child is born, traditional roles intensify, with the mother burdened by labor and the father often absent.
- This shift deepens the mother's dependence and entrapment in marriage.
Liberal Men Can Uphold Patriarchy
- Jealousy and sabotage often plague liberal creative men who start as partners but then resist their wife's success.
- Progressive rhetoric sometimes masks ongoing patriarchal dynamics in these marriages.
Addiction Fuels Emotional Labor
- John nearly drinks himself to death late in Jane's pregnancy, causing her to manage his crisis.
- His destructive behavior exemplifies how addiction fuels abuse and emotional labor imbalance.
