The Mating Grounds Podcast The Mate Preview, Pt. 19: How & Where To Meet The Women You Want
Sep 2, 2015
Discover why volunteering is a better way to meet women than going to bars and clubs. Learn how to make your mating life an extension of your social life. Explore different ways to meet women that align with your interests. Get valuable tips on creating an appealing online dating profile and actively seeking out the type of women you're interested in.
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Why Bars And Clubs Usually Fail
- Bars and clubs are evolutionarily unnatural mating environments that favor loud, super-confident extroverts.
- The noise, chaos, and tipsy crowds remove subtle signals that most men need to display attraction traits.
Bars Strip Away Important Signals
- Bars favor physical attractiveness, wealth signals, and loud charisma while stripping other traits.
- Women feel unsafe and overwhelmed in bars, making authentic connection harder.
Make Dating Part Of Your Social Life
- Make your mating life an extension of your social life instead of going to places specifically to meet women.
- Use existing friendships and social proof to make women feel safe and pre-validated.