Christian Podcast for Men | Real Men Connect 6 Dirty Words All Men Should Avoid (EP:1021)
Dec 17, 2025
Chad Harris, the lead pastor of The Crossing Church in Chattanooga, shares his insights on the power of words. He explores 'dirty words' that harm communication, such as judgment, gossip, and sarcasm, emphasizing their impact on relationships. Chad contrasts complaining with lamenting and offers practical advice for giving and receiving criticism. He also reflects on his journey as a pastor's child and the importance of intentional family time. Listeners are encouraged to cultivate positive speech and recognize the significance of their words.
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Give Feedback, Not Condemnation
- Offer criticism as constructive feedback from a posture of wanting the person to win.
- Connect to the person first so they know you're on their side before correcting them.
Sarcasm Is A Silent Weapon
- Sarcasm masks contempt and uses words as weapons while appearing witty.
- Normalizing sarcasm erodes compassion and can tear people down even when it's celebrated culturally.
Kill Gossip With Verification
- Stop spreading unverified stories; if it doesn't bring a solution and you can't verify it, don't share it.
- Confront gossip by gathering all parties and verifying facts before letting the conversation continue.