the aim of argument should not be victory, but progress / 4 Steps for arguing intelligently / connection through high quality vibration / Vishnu's eyes / spiritual direction cures dejection / we're missing the big "WHY" / bogus gut feelings / penance, prayers & mental concentration reveal God in the heart / to the degree of the intensity of our desire for truth, Paramatma will reveal truth in the heart / what it means to be a friend
SB 3.9.24-26
