The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle 007: How to Bring Back that Loving Feeling
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Jan 22, 2020 AI Snips
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Hurt vs. Hate
- Consider if your husband's negativity stems from hurt, not hatred.
- Ask yourself if your reactions are driven by hate or by hurt and a desire to defend yourself.
Laura's Criticism Cycle
- Laura Doyle used to criticize her husband to others, feeling justified.
- Her husband reacted defensively with anger and meanness, making her feel he was hateful.
Stop Criticizing, Apologize
- Experiment by stopping criticism and complaining to see if your husband's negativity changes.
- Offer a short, sincere apology for disrespectful behavior without justifications.