The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

Ep. 251: Scammers Be Scamming

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Feb 18, 2022
A dive into high-profile romance scams like The Tinder Swindler and Sweet Bobby. How con artists escalate intensity, move victims off apps and spin elaborate fairy-tale stories. Why crisis scripts, testing tactics and emotional swings keep people hooked. Practical prompts to spot red flags like fast-forwarded commitment and suspicious online identities.
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INSIGHT

Scams Follow Predictable Patterns

  • Scams share recurring patterns across formats, from romance to financial fraud.
  • Recognizing patterns helps separate ordinary dating missteps from deliberate deception.
INSIGHT

Deception Plus Manipulation Equals Scam

  • A scam combines deception with manipulation to obtain goods or trust.
  • Romance scams also aim to isolate victims and extract money under false pretences.
ANECDOTE

The West Elm Caleb Example

  • Natalie recounts the West Elm Caleb case where a man repeated the same dating script.
  • He charmed multiple women with identical lines and then ghosted them, prompting online outing.
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