
This American Life 212: The Other Man
Apr 5, 2026
Heather O'Neill, author and storyteller, and Arizona O'Neill, now an adult creator who as a child reacted vividly to a new partner, plus Davy Rothbart, writer and Found Magazine creator, share uncanny family tales. They explore a household transformed by an unseen Buddhist spirit, a baffling political namesake, and a newcomer who must win over a skeptical child. Short, surprising stories about how outsiders reshape family life.
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Belief Is Rooted In Relationship Not Proof
- The podcast frames belief in Aaron as a choice between unsettling worldviews or accepting a helpful personal truth.
- Davy admits he believes in Aaron because he trusts his mother, highlighting faith's social basis over empirical proof.
Usefulness Trumps Verifiability In Practice
- Rejecting either extreme (literal spirit or delusion) leaves a third practical question: are the ideas useful to people's lives?
- Aaron's reply emphasized usefulness over provability, reframing spiritual claims as pragmatic tools.
Walking Interview With The Spirit
- Davy directly questioned Aaron through his mother during a snowy walk and received first-person answers claiming centuries of lives.
- Aaron said he last walked in Thailand 500 years ago and described repeated teacher–student lifetimes with Erin.


