Work On Your Game: Discipline, Structure, and Execution Under Pressure #3584: Men: Why You Are Getting NO Pussy [Part 3 of 7]
Mar 7, 2026
A blunt look at common dating blind spots that silently disqualify men. Topics include how oversharing destroys containment, why authority comes from saying less, and the power of listening more than talking. Discussion also covers staying calm under resistance and reading tests as confidence checks.
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Containment Reveals Authority
- Containment signals authority and includes control of emotions, energy, thoughts, and words.
- Dre Baldwin shows that oversharing—online or in person—reveals lack of containment and reduces women's trust and attraction.
Stop Explaining Yourself To Women
- Do stop explaining yourself to women and be brief when answering questions.
- Dre advises giving needed instructions (pick-up time, plan) without narrating your thought process or justifying choices.
Let Her Talk Far More Than You
- Do talk less and listen more; aim for her to speak 60–80% of the time.
- Dre recommends asking open-ended questions and importing three times as much communication as you export, like skilled salespeople do.