
Judge John Hodgman Pain and Suffer Ring
Apr 1, 2026
A sibling rivalry over relentless phone alarms vs. handwritten to-do lists. A family law practice’s work dynamics and how personal systems collide with professional meetings. A 107-page babysitter manual and labeled sentimental alerts get examined. The courtroom unpacks compromises and whether habits should bend for workplace harmony.
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Alarms as an Active To-Do System
- David uses phone alarms as a personal task-management system rather than conventional reminders or calendars.
- He relies on audible, repeating alarms to force immediate action and avoid passive, easily-ignored notifications.
Forty Five Alarms Stored Like Sticky Notes
- David keeps many dormant alarms (about 45) as an ad hoc to-do list and resurrects them when needed.
- He admits some alarms date back eight years and are kept for sentimental or practical reuse.
Prefer Reminders For Passive Tasks
- Use built-in reminders or calendar entries instead of aggressive alarms for non-urgent items.
- Reminders are less intrusive because they pop passively at reasonable times instead of forcing an immediate audible interruption.



