The Melissa Ambrosini Show

691: The 60-Second Filter to Stop Overcommitting in Business & Life

Feb 13, 2026
A practical 60-second decision filter to stop overcommitting and protect your capacity. Four quick questions help you test season alignment, complexity, true costs beyond money, and the trade-offs of saying yes. Real-world example and ready-to-use boundary language. Short practice to apply the tool and notice how your body responds.
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ADVICE

Use A 60-Second Filter

  • Before saying yes, run the request through a four-question filter you can use in under 60 seconds.
  • If the answer isn't a clear yes, treat it as a clean "not yet" and protect your capacity.
INSIGHT

Overthinking Is A System Problem

  • Overthinking often stems from lacking a decision filter, not from a personality flaw.
  • Too many inputs and no criteria turn every choice into a debate and deplete you before starting.
ADVICE

Match Opportunities To Your Season

  • Ask, "Does this support the season that I am in?" to judge fit with your current priorities and capacity.
  • Say no to good opportunities that are simply wrong for your present season.
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