
ADHD Chatter Worlds No.1 ADHD Mentor Shares New Coping Strategy | Matt Gupwell
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Jul 14, 2025 In a captivating discussion, Matt Gupwell, a globally recognized ADHD mentor, shares his insights on navigating neurodiversity. He delves into the differences between early and late ADHD diagnoses and how they affect men and women. Gupwell addresses the profound connection between neurodivergence and loneliness, emphasizing the importance of community. He introduces an innovative ADHD coping strategy called 'Cages' and discusses the emotional complexities of grieving with ADHD, advocating for self-acceptance and understanding.
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Question Midlife Changes Deeply
- Ask yourself tough questions about feelings driving drastic midlife changes.
- Explore underlying causes rather than label behaviors superficially as midlife crises.
Coping Strategies Can Become Cages
- Coping strategies often become 'cages' when they restrict authentic living out of fear.
- People hold into harmful coping like substance use or social butterflies due to anxiety and fear of loneliness.
Helping Others Became My Cage
- Matt couldn't say no to helping others using his work van; it drained his energy and neglected his family.
- Fear of disappointing others kept him trapped in a harmful pattern he later recognized as a cage.


