How to Help Her Into Her Feminine | 148

Dropping an old favorite in honor of my anniversary today.

How to Help Her Into Her Feminine covers what a man can do to help a woman move from her competitive (“masculine”) self to her interdependent (“feminine”) self.

It draws on some fringe lessons from BDSM, evolutionary biology, and case studies from many guys I’ve helped.

I recorded it shortly after our daughter was born. I wonder if you can hear the drop in testosterone in my voice.

(00:00:00): Irony of Attraction Shifts

(00:04:53): If Mama Ain’t Happy…

(00:10:54): Asymmetry + Connection Yin-Yang

(00:18:03): Concentric Circles Hierarchy

(00:27:47): Women’s Dual Stress

(00:39:03): Demonstrate, Don’t Demand

(00:43:40): Vision as Leader

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