The Curious Girl Diaries From 'Never' To 'Maybe': My Rim Job Awakening
Feb 24, 2026
Kathy Kay, host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast and sex-positive commentator, joins for a frank chat about rimming, anal prep, and cleanliness. Short, candid takes on boundaries, practical douching tips, and whether partners notice prep. They also take a spicy detour into blow jobs, dominance, submission, and degradation fantasies.
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Men Often Secretly Crave Gross Backdoor Kinks
- Many people assume partners secretly want extreme backdoor play even if they publicly reject it.
- Layla and Kathy notice men often hide eagerness for gross kinks, while women vary in receptiveness and experience.
Confessions About Anal Prep Practices
- Kathy admits she has never prepped for anal and did a lot of anal without douching in her earlier, drinking years.
- Layla contrasts that with selective prepping when anal is planned, using store douches and fasting to minimize surprises.
Prep Anal Sessions With Gentle Douching And Fasting
- If you're planning dedicated anal play, prep with gentle douching, fasting and lots of lube to reduce surprises.
- Layla recommends stopping food beforehand and douching until the water runs clear for cleaner sessions.