Become New with John Ortberg 6. The 3 Laws of Relationship
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May 17, 2021 A short talk on the three laws of relationship that centers on learning to notice others. Stories from Joseph’s life illustrate how suffering can open our eyes to people’s needs. Practical tips for observing, asking simple questions, and letting go of personal agendas to truly see and serve those around you.
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Mentor Told Him To See Dignity
- John Ortberg recounts his conversation with mentor Neil Warren who compared relationships to real estate laws about location.
- Neil told him to assume God's image in people and that looking closely reveals their inherent dignity.
Practice Observation Observation Observation
- Do practice the three laws of relationship by observing people carefully throughout your day.
- John Ortberg advises repeating observation, observation, observation to notice dignity and what matters to others.
Joseph Learned To See After Suffering
- John Ortberg retells Joseph's story: youthful blindness to others led to suffering, which transformed Joseph's ability to notice and ask about people's pain.
- After slavery and prison Joseph sees the dejected men and asks, initiating his role in later reconciliation.