The Futur with Chris Do Overcoming the Fear of Speaking Up w/ Jule Kim | Ep 428
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Apr 15, 2026 
Jule Kim, executive coach who helps professionals conquer social anxiety and communicate directly. She and Chris talk candidly about why people hold back, how to ask precise questions to clarify client intent, navigating social discomfort, and confidently stating prices. Short, practical conversations about practicing direct communication daily.
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Say What You Think To Prevent Guesswork
- Saying what you think is a foundational habit that prevents internal festering and poor outcomes.
- Chris Do credits a coach who taught him to ask direct, simple questions like What inspired this and If this were a home run what would that look like.
Holding Back Online To Avoid Stereotypes
- Jule Kim admitted she softens her online voice out of fear of being labeled the angry Asian woman.
- She iterated posts multiple times and caught herself moderating words to avoid that stereotype.
Don’t Flee Social Awkwardness Stay Present
- When you feel you don't fit in socially, avoid fleeing and instead engage deliberately.
- Jule's survival mantra was literally Tell yourself don't run and don't cry, then focus on connecting rather than hiding.