Queer Collective Podcast How to Open Your Relationship (and Actually Make It Work) ft. The Polyamory Therapy Collective
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Mar 13, 2025 Join therapists Louis K., Patrick Plessa, and Amanda Vandenbroek from the Polyamory Therapy Collective as they explore the ins and outs of opening up relationships. They dive into how to initiate the conversation and navigate jealousy, discussing rookie mistakes to avoid. Key topics include couples' privilege, the ethics of consensual non-monogamy, and the importance of communication. They provide valuable insights into embracing self-discovery and fostering authentic connections, making this a must-listen for anyone curious about ethical non-monogamy.
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Easing Into the Conversation
- Start discussions about non-monogamy gently, testing your partner's openness.
- Approach by asking their opinions generally rather than stating immediate desires to open relationship.
Monogamy’s Invisible Grip and Insecurity
- Monogamy is so ingrained socially it's like water to a fish, invisible until challenged.
- Wanting non-monogamy can trigger feelings of not being enough, which reflects internalized insecurity, not failure.
Discuss Boundaries and Go Slow
- Discuss detailed boundaries: dating apps, time spent, communication frequency, and information sharing.
- Start slow and check in often to maintain trust and accommodate pacing differences.
