
Pints With Aquinas Why the Ordinary Catholic Life Is So Beautiful (Fr. Simon Esshaki) | Ep. 572
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Mar 30, 2026 Fr. Simon Esshaki, a Chaldean Catholic priest from San Diego known for pastoral ministry and a huge social media reach. He talks about vocation and why he became a priest. He explores Marian devotion, liturgy and the beauty of Eastern worship. He discusses confession, celibacy, and practical spiritual formation for everyday holiness.
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Treat Temptations As Wounded Parts Not Failures
- Fr. Simon adopts a 'parts' view (IFS-like) to handle persistent temptations: treat disordered desires as wounded parts needing compassion, not merely condemnation.
- He credits Jerry Crete and spiritual direction for teaching curiosity about underlying pain rather than self-hate.
Replace Triggers By Building Small Daily Devotions
- Build concrete habits (e.g., daily rosary) to replace disordered behaviors because prayer alone without new routines rarely changes embodied patterns.
- Fr. Simon notes the rosary gives 15–20 minutes daily that removes time for other triggers and forms new rhythms.
COVID TikTok Sparked A Massive Online Ministry
- During COVID Fr. Simon began using TikTok and Instagram after his cousin showed him faith videos; a viral career followed and he now balances digital teaching with urging real sacramental life.
- He made short, authentic clips (food, sports, catechesis) and grew to 520K+ followers on TikTok.








