Antifascist Dad Podcast 11. The Communism of Love w/ Richard Gilman-Opalsky
I asked communist philosopher and jazz drummer Richard Gilman-Opalsky a deceptively simple question: What do we actually mean when we say “love”?
Richard’s "Communism of Love," insists that love is an active, non-exchange relation that contradicts the logic of capitalism. You can’t measure or spreadsheet it, or cost it out.
Unfortunately, this fact can also curdle into an excuse for sidelining and ignoring the vast amount of unpaid, often gendered, domestic labor—the "secret workshop" described by feminist marxists—where the concept of love is abused and "weaponized" to justify working for free, claiming that love is its own reward.
We talk about how real caregiving love requires parents to actively participate in their children's becoming—what they are not yet. That means getting over the anxiety of control and the tendency to treat children as emotional/financial investments. Parenting, like revolutionary politics and improvisational jazz, requires a constant, collective improvisation and a love for possibilities over rigid predetermined structures.
In “Fascist, Squish, and Antifascist News of the Week” I focus on Ontario Premier Doug Ford responding to reporting about a Canadian armored vehicle manufacturer supplying ICE.
Part Two is up now on Patreon, where Richard and I go deeper into improvisation, music, and why fascist control hates the freedom required for human flourishing.
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Show Notes:
Canadian Defence Review. “Roman Shimonov: 2025 Defence Executive of the Year.” Canadian Defence Review, 2025.
https://canadiandefencereview.com/roman-shimonov-2025-defence-executive-of-the-year/
Canadian Press. “ICE Ordering Fleet of 20 Armoured Vehicles from Canadian Firm.” CityNews Halifax, December 2, 2025.
https://halifax.citynews.ca/2025/12/02/ice-ordering-fleet-of-20-armoured-vehicles-from-canadian-firm/
Canadian Press. “ICE Says Armoured Vehicles Ordered from Roshel Produced in U.S.” CityNews Toronto, December 4, 2025.
https://toronto.citynews.ca/2025/12/04/ice-says-armoured-vehicles-ordered-from-roshel-produced-in-u-s/
Canadian Press. “Sale of Canadian Armoured Vehicles to ICE Agency ‘Deeply Troubling’: Kwan.” CityNews Toronto, December 3, 2025.
https://toronto.citynews.ca/2025/12/03/sale-of-canadian-armoured-vehicles-to-ice-agency-deeply-troubling-kwan/
CPAC. “NDP MP Jenny Kwan Discusses Arms Exports Bill (C-233).” Headline Politics, September 19, 2025.
https://www.cpac.ca/headline-politics/episode/ndp-mp-jenny-kwan-discusses-arms-exports-bill--september-19-2025?id=755fc44b-a0b7-4bb1-b972-855c673ec354
Duggan, Kyle. “Anita Anand Won’t Say Whether Canada Would Block Export of Armoured Vehicles for Use by ICE.” The Globe and Mail, December 2025.
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/politics/article-anita-anand-block-export-armoured-vehicles-ice/
Ford Motor Company. “Ford Pro Upfitter Program.” Ford Canada.
https://www.fordpro.ca/en-ca/upfit/pro-upfitter/
Ford Motor Company. “Qualified Vehicle Modifier (QVM) Program Overview.” Ford Pro.
https://www.fordpro.com/en-us/upfit/qualified-vehicle-modifiers/
Gilmore, Rachel. “A Canadian Company Is Supplying Armoured Cars to ICE.” The Tyee, December 4, 2025.
https://thetyee.ca/Opinion/2025/12/04/Canadian-Company-Armoured-Cars-ICE/
Global Affairs Canada. “Report on Exports of Military Goods from Canada 2023.” Government of Canada.
https://www.international.gc.ca/transparency-transparence/controls-controles/military-militaires/index.aspx?lang=eng
Global Affairs Canada. “Report on Exports of Military Goods from Canada 2024.” Government of Canada.
https://www.international.gc.ca/transparency-transparence/controls-controles/military-militaires/index.aspx?lang=eng
Global News. “Ford Welcomes ICE Plan to Order Ontario Armoured Vehicles.” Global News, December 3, 2025.
https://globalnews.ca/news/11558322/doug-ford-ontario-armoured-vehicles-ice/
Global News. “ICE Taps Canadian Firm for 20 Armoured Vehicles Despite Trump Trade War.” Global News, December 2, 2025.
https://globalnews.ca/news/11556588/us-ice-canada-roshel-armoured-vehicles/
Independent, The. “Canadians Call for Halt to ICE Armoured Vehicle Sale After Roshel News.” The Independent, December 2025.
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/canada-ice-vehicle-sales-trump-carney-b2878330.html
Leadnow. “Stop the Contract: No Canadian Weapons to ICE.” Leadnow Petition, December 2025.
https://leadnow.ca/stop-the-contract-roshel-ice/
Patterson, Brent. “Ontario-Based Company to Sell Armoured Vehicles to U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE).” Peace Brigades International–Canada, December 3, 2025.
https://pbicanada.org/2025/12/03/ontario-based-company-to-sell-armoured-vehicles-to-u-s-immigration-and-customs-enforcement-ice/
Patterson, Brent. “Questions and Concerns About the Pending Export of Canadian-Made Armoured Vehicles to the Israel Police.” Peace Brigades International–Canada, April 17, 2025.
https://pbicanada.org/2025/04/17/questions-the-pending-export-of-canadian-made-armoured-vehicles-to-the-israel-police/
Read, Justin Ling. “Canada Sold $18.9 Million of Military Goods to Israel Despite ‘Pause’.” The Maple, 2025.
https://www.readthemaple.com/canada-sold-18-9-million-of-military-goods-to-israel-despite-pause/
YouTube. “Anita Anand on Roshel–ICE Contract (Scrum Clip).” December 3, 2025.
https://youtube.com/shorts/Ce7gk6LDLqA
Yahoo News Canada. “Canadian Firm Roshel to Provide ICE with Armoured Vehicles.” Yahoo News Canada, December 3, 2025.
https://ca.news.yahoo.com/business-matters-canadian-firm-roshel-171906482.html
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