We Can Do Hard Things What We Don’t Talk About: Raising Older Kids
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Oct 31, 2024 In a heartfelt discussion, the hosts dive into the complexities of raising older children. They reflect on personal experiences, including moments of parental identity loss and the importance of seeing parents as human beings. The conversation emphasizes supporting kids' individuation and finding a sense of belonging beyond parenting roles. They also share insights on navigating the bittersweet transition to independence, highlighting the need for open communication and self-compassion as kids carve out their own paths.
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Changing Nature of Love
- Glennon finds the diffuse nature of love with older children harder to manage.
- She misses the intense, focused connection she had with them when they were younger.
Loss of Control and Choice
- Glennon expresses fear of losing control and the ability to choose what happens to her children as they grow older.
- Abby and Amanda suggest that the fear may stem from her children gaining the agency to define their relationship with her.
Identity Crisis and Belonging
- Glennon worries about her identity now that her role as a mother is changing. She had found belonging in her family unit.
- She questions who she is outside of motherhood and expresses the loneliness of raising older kids.