You Are Heroic with Brian Johnson

Hanging Out with Confucius: And Winning or Learning (Heroic +1 #1,419)

Feb 8, 2023
Reflections on goal-setting, practice, and why being a beginner matters. A look at growth mindset research and how it shapes learning and parenting. Ancient lessons from Confucius about choosing whom to imitate and turning every interaction into a chance to gain. Practical prompts for admiring virtues, spotting faults, and cultivating daily excellence.
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ANECDOTE

Emerson's Chess Dream Sparked Growth Mindset Talk

  • Brian recounts chatting with his 10-year-old Emerson about becoming a chess master and learning from players who could beat him.
  • He links Emerson's enthusiasm to teaching moments about beginner mindset and Carol Dweck's growth mindset research.
ADVICE

Use Mindset Research To Teach Practice And Growth

  • Read Carol Dweck's Mindset and our notes on Mindset and Self-Theories to cultivate a growth mindset in kids and adults.
  • Brian strongly recommends these resources as the most impactful parenting tools he's used.
INSIGHT

Learn From Everyone Around You

  • Confucius teaches you can learn from everyone by selecting good qualities to imitate and bad ones to correct in yourself.
  • Brian cites The Analects line about learning even when walking in a party of three to show everyday opportunities to grow.
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