Maggie Dent - ‘Good Enough’ Parenting is Good Enough

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Feb 22, 2026

Maggie Dent, parenting educator and bestselling author known for practical 'good enough' advice, champions raising resilient boys. She discusses why boys need different support, rooster vs lamb temperaments, the power of micro connections and play, risks from screens and pornography, and the importance of one good-enough parent, meaningful activities and lightness in parenting.

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ANECDOTE

McDonald's Walk Led To A Bullying Confession

A dad walked his 14-year-old a kilometre to McDonald's, then the boy sobbed and disclosed severe bullying.
Maggie uses this story to show walking plus food opens boys to reveal trauma safely.

ADVICE

Use Short Visual Cues Not Long Lectures

Use few words and visual or spatial cues with boys when giving instructions.
Make eye contact, touch their head and give single clear actions rather than long verbal lectures.

ADVICE

Make Bedtime Rituals Vivid And Regular

Keep a simple, repeatable bedtime ritual two to three times a week to embed love.
Use large, vivid comparisons (stars, sand, silly additions) so boys internalise an unambiguous message of love.

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You just have to be a good parent 30-40% of the time. According to the research, and parenting expert Maggie Dent.

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In our Academy of Imperfection, Maggie schools parents Hugh and Josh, and trusted non-parental figure Ryan, about the ‘no matter what’ rule, the importance of micro connections and the beauty of a well-timed fart.

An advocate for imperfect parenting (which is REALLY great for brand alignment), Maggie insists on the significance of unconditional love when raising boys.

Maggie you are wonderful. This was wonderful. You’re the best.

Watch the full episode on YouTube - https://youtu.be/iUHYScQ3WgQ

0:00 – Why boys are better than girls
6:22 – The science of boys
14:02 – Shedding the shame
22:28 – Growing healthy boys
31:09 – Connecting with your rooster
42:56 – The S words: screens and social media
47:00 – The good enough factors
57:45 – Correcting the narrative
1:06:05 – Importance of Lightness + Letting go of mistakes
1:11:41 – Raising an autistic boy
1:16:05 – How do you resist the easy method

🫖Other episodes of The Imperfects mentioned on this episode

Hugh’s ADHD…brief - https://bit.ly/4aofEjd

📖 Things to read

You can find all of Maggie’s books here - https://bit.ly/46g4GK7
Help Me Help My Teen by Maggie Dent (page 106 to converse with teens) - https://bit.ly/4aYi2NO
Maggie’s Fragile Boy Friendship Blog Post - https://bit.ly/4qUqzGw

📺 Things to watch

Bluey ‘Octopus’ episode - https://bit.ly/4riF2Ng
Marc-Andre Leclerc - The Alpinist - https://bit.ly/4tEsaCR

💻 Things to check out

Allan Schore’s Brain Development for Boys research - https://bit.ly/3OfRyi9

🎧 Things to listen to

The Good Enough Dad with Maggie Dent - https://bit.ly/4aGq2la
Parental As Anything - https://bit.ly/4qHAleM

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