Qalam Institute Podcast Gems from Ibn Ata Illah : EP 2 – The deprivation in giving
Feb 28, 2026
A reflection on a paradoxical teaching: some gifts can actually deprive you of greater good. Short stories examine how receiving wealth or favors might block doors to spiritual growth. Listeners are encouraged to reframe unanswered requests as hidden provision and to ask for what truly benefits the soul. Practical reminders about intention, istikhara, and spotting blessings conclude the discussion.
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Gifts Can Be Hidden Deprivations
- Not every apparent gift is truly a gift because what is given can block greater blessings.
- The host explains Ibn Ata'illah's line that sometimes Allah gives but in that giving there was deprivation, urging spiritual depth beyond externals.
Deprivation As A Form Of Divine Gift
- Deprivation can itself be a gift when it brings spiritual benefits like sustained connection with Allah.
- The host shares a sheikh's response that forty years of unanswered dua was actually forty years of connection to Allah.
The Companion Who Grew A Flock And Lost Mosque Time
- A companion asked the Prophet ﷺ to make dua for wealth and was warned it might not be good for him.
- After the Prophet prayed, his flock multiplied and he gradually stopped attending the masjid, losing his nickname 'pigeon of the masjid'.