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How to tune your inner voice | Rhonda Ross, Daniel Alexander Jones

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Mar 21, 2026
Rhonda Ross, a singer-songwriter, actress and mindset coach, joins Daniel Alexander Jones, a scholar, playwright and TED Fellow. They dig into emotional sovereignty, inner narratives and how thoughts shape feelings. They touch on grief, miscarriage, parenting panic, lineage, freedom and Ross’s music-based “songtras” for reshaping self-talk.
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How Career Loss Led Rhonda Ross To Emotional Sovereignty

  • Rhonda Ross hit a dark period when her soap opera was canceled, she lost the Emmy, lived apart from her husband, and couldn't get pregnant.
  • Studying thought patterns led her to emotional sovereignty, the idea that thoughts between circumstance and feeling create suffering or relief.
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How Reframing Helped Rhonda Ross Through Miscarriage

  • During a miscarriage in Minneapolis, Viney Burroughs held Rhonda Ross and said it felt like the end of the world, but wasn't.
  • Another friend reframed a later miscarriage as her body getting ready, showing perspective can change pain's meaning.
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The Five Minute Parenting Panic On 125th Street

  • Rhonda Ross panicked on 125th Street when her son Raif wasn't where his tracker said he was.
  • She caught herself skipping the inner step, then reframed the same facts instead of letting five minutes become terror.
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