PURE Podcast WORKSHOP: The 13 Most Difficult People You'll Ever Meet - Miami, HOUSE OF MORE, Jan 12 2026
Feb 19, 2026
A deep dive into transforming difficult relationships using Kabbalistic tools and the 13 attributes of mercy. Short sketches of 13 challenging personality types like the Insulter, Repeat Offender, Instigator and the Impossible. Practical somatic exercises, journal prompts, boundary guidance and rituals to embody restraint, kindness and healing.
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Use The 13 Attributes As Practical Tools
- Ayala introduced 13 difficult personality types each matched to an attribute of mercy and taught you can intentionally embody those attributes.
- She recommended somatic exercises and journaling for each attribute to move from triggered reaction to activated response.
Respond To Insults With Strength Not Weaponized Truth
- For an Insulter, Ayala advised choosing restraint: remain kind and giving and avoid weaponizing truth even when hurt.
- She taught a somatic scan: locate where insult lands in the body, place a hand there, breathe, and imagine restraint held by strength not collapse.
Smiling After Being Cut Off As Practice
- Ayala illustrated practicing toleration with a real-life driving example: she smiled and waved after being cut off to defuse insult.
- She noted people found it odd but used it to model restraining response and maintaining kindness.
