#32 Sex Hacking: Confidence and Calibration (with Kenneth Play)

Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator. From a deeply insecure Asian immigrant to over 8 million views on PornHub and being named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ, Kenneth develops sex techniques to help couples learn new ways to connect and overcome challenges in the bedroom. His newest course features over 70+ videos and 12 hours of content, and was described by AskMen as having "at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several." His teaching has been described as a mashup of Bruce Lee’s mixed martial arts approach and Tim Ferriss’s 80/20 rule. He worked with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to conduct the world's largest survey on squirting; with Pamela Madsen at the Back to the Body Sensual Retreats for Women; and has been a featured presenter at New York University and San Jose State University. He has devoted his life to empowering couples to close the orgasm gap and experience the best sex of their lives.

Key Points:

- Kenneth’s journey from Asian immigrant to Sex Hacker

- Sexual stereotypes of Asian men

- Overcoming stereotypes and facing fears

- Inner work and outer work

- Being confident and competent

- Approaching sex like a Sports Scientist

- Skill acquisition and teaching sex hacks

- Educational porn

- Sexual feedback and calibrating to your partner

- Practical tips for better sex

Relevant links:

Kenneth’s Instagram: @kenneth_play

Kenneth’s Website: www.kennethplay.com