The Place We Find Ourselves 94 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 2
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Jul 19, 2021 AI Snips
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Mother Twists Request Into Excuse
- A daughter tells her mother she felt burdened by adult problems and mom claims the daughter asked for closeness.
- Mom shifts responsibility, making the daughter's request the reason for mom's inappropriate disclosures.
Minimizing Wounds As Defense
- Wicked people minimize others' wounds with phrases like "peace, peace" to avoid shame.
- Their hardened hearts mean they feel no shame about how they've wounded you.
Threat Of Family Exclusion
- A daughter raises past hurt and mom denies it then texts a veiled threat to exclude her from Christmas.
- That message signals the start of banishment for naming mom's failures.