
Speak The Truth EP. 174 Learning to Listen: Essential Skills for Every Counselor W/Author Joseph Hussung
Jul 14, 2025
In a thought-provoking discussion, Joseph Hussung, Director of Ministry Partnerships at Fieldstone Counseling and author of 'Learning to Listen,' sheds light on the art of listening in counseling. He shares his inspiration for the book and introduces the GRACE acronym—Gaze, Relax, Align, Connect, Engage—as a vital tool for effective communication. The conversation underscores the impact of empathy and context in listener-counselee relationships, while also offering practical strategies to enhance active listening skills and navigate complex interactions.
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Why Purpose, Posture, Practice Matter
- Hussung structures skill training as purpose, posture, and practice to connect wisdom with technique and prevent mechanistic or manipulative behavior. Knowing why, embodying right character, and practicing technique keep counseling faithful and effective.
Empathy As A Disposition
- Hussung reframes empathy as a listening disposition rooted in love that connects compassion to practical help. Empathy prepares the heart to move from understanding toward active assistance.
How Sin Distorts Listening
- Sin disrupts listening by cutting us off from God's love and by producing behaviors like speaking too soon, minimizing suffering, and prideful dominance. These distortions make loving listening and wise counsel harder to practice.



