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Why Your Wife Says You Don’t Get It: Solutions for Modern Marriages | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep379

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Feb 19, 2026
They unpack what “you don’t get it” really means and why communication keeps breaking down. They explore shifting blame into responsibility and practical ways to rephrase and be understood. They talk about rebuilding intimacy through curiosity, re-dating your partner, and listening deeply when emotions run high.
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INSIGHT

Wanting To Be Understood Not Insulted

  • When someone says "you don't get it" they actually mean they want to be understood and cared for.
  • Reframing blame into "what could I do differently?" opens the path to connection.
ADVICE

Say It Differently Until It Lands

  • Try saying the same thing in a different way until your partner understands.
  • Adjust tone and body language because communication is largely nonverbal and influences reception.
ANECDOTE

Using Playful Signals With Kids

  • Cass describes using different phrasing with her kids to prevent escalation.
  • She used a playful signal (eyebrows/helicopter) to ask for repetition without anger.
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