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#855 - Richard Reeves - Why Do Modern Men Feel So Left Behind?

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Oct 24, 2024

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Richard Reeves

Richard Reeves, a writer and founder of the American Institute for Boys & Men, delves into the modern struggles faced by men, including rising suicide rates and the need for tailored support. He discusses the evolving perceptions of masculinity and the stigma surrounding mental health, emphasizing the importance of feeling needed in society. Reeves also explores the isolation many men face post-divorce, the complexities of political representation, and systemic reforms required for working-class men. He advocates for a more nuanced discussion on these critical issues.

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Unpopularity of Men's Advocacy

Advocating for men is unpopular because it's often viewed as taking away from women's issues.
It can be hard to enter the space without arousing suspicion.

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AIBM's Focus and Challenges

The American Institute for Boys and Men (AIBM) focuses on research and data regarding men's issues.
Reeves highlights difficulties recruiting women to work for an institute focused on men.

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Drug Poisonings and Despair

Drug poisonings are a significant cause of death for men, especially working-class men.
Reeves links this to a sense of retreat and despair.

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Men have been struggling for a long time. What exactly is going on? What resources can genuinely help modern men, and how can we better understand the dynamics that are driving this decline in male wellbeing.

Expect to learn why Obama endorsed Richard’s book, the scary trends about male suicide, why it's important for humans to feel needed, whether the Harris-Walz campaign has even considered men's existence, if this upcoming election will be decided by masculinity, Richard’s thoughts on therapy for men and much more….

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