The Dr. Laura Podcast

Should I Wish My Daughter a Happy Birthday?

Jan 31, 2026
Preston, a father of three dealing with long-term estrangement after a divorce. He recounts custody fights, strained family dynamics, and a recent birthday snub. The conversation covers past visitation battles, signs of his ex-wife's instability, which child stayed close, and advice about reaching out with low expectations.
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Divorce Surprise During Counseling

  • Preston describes being blindsided when his wife announced a divorce during counseling after years of blaming him.
  • He recounts that counselors told him she wanted to blame, not actually engage in therapy.
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Humiliating Court-Ordered Exchanges

  • Preston recounts restricted pickup locations shifting from home to a restaurant and then a police station parking lot.
  • He says his ex used those exchanges to instill fear in the children about him.
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Children Turned Against Father

  • Preston gives examples of his daughter's hostile behavior, like yelling at her mother on the phone.
  • He also notes the ex-wife repeatedly called him a liar to the children.
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