How To! with Mike Pesca How To Talk to Contractors (With Sam Sanders and Mercury Stardust)
Nov 4, 2025
Join journalist Sam Sanders, a fresh homeowner grappling with DIY fears, and Mercury Stardust, the Trans Handyman and home improvement expert. They dive into the nuances of talking to contractors, discussing everything from understanding power dynamics to leveraging multiple bids for better deals. Mercury emphasizes trusting your instincts when vetting contractors and discovering how local networks can be invaluable. They explore the emotional barriers to DIY, revealing that starting small can build confidence and skills. A must-listen for hesitant homeowners!
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Homes Carry Generational Baggage
- Houses carry generational decisions and neglect that compound over time.
- Stopping small problems early prevents major, expensive repairs later.
You’re The Client, Not The Hireling
- Remember you hold the power: you pay for the work, so you call the shots.
- If a contractor talks down to you or you don't vibe, don't hire them.
Three-Contractor Rule For Hiring
- Use Mercury's three-contractor rule: get quotes from three contractors and learn from each visit.
- Pick the middle-priced bid and avoid the highest and lowest unless you have strong reasons.
