Modern Wisdom #704 - Mads Larsen - Are Relationships Supposed To Last For Life?
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Nov 9, 2023 
Mads Larsen, a Norwegian author and journalist specializing in human mating ideologies, discusses the fascinating evolution of relationships throughout history. He explores why modern beliefs about partnerships are historically unusual and examines the societal roles of mating ideologies. The conversation touches on the happiness of older generations, the challenges faced by incels, and unexpected advantages of having daughters in farming. Larsen also delves into the impact of technological advancements and the evolving dynamics of modern dating.
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Church's Power Grab
- The church gained power by controlling marriages and inheritance, acquiring 40% of Western European land by the 10th century.
- This control over resources and powerful men's access to women helped increased the church's influence.
Courtly Love and Consent
- Courtly love, the West's first sexual revolution, emphasized female consent, a stark contrast to women as commodities in antiquity.
- This new sociality, with openness towards strangers, became crucial for cooperation in feudal Europe.
European Marriage Pattern
- The European marriage pattern delayed marriage due to the need to accumulate resources, impacting reproduction.
- This, combined with the church's ban on infanticide, led to new social pressures.