304. Relationships: How to Keep the Spark Alive?

Apr 1, 2026

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Have you done everything you are meant to do with your partner? If not, is there something that can change to keep the spark alive?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas answers more listener questions about relationships.

There is nothing right or wrong about being in a relationship or not; it's just a choice. Don't choose relationship because you think it's a necessity. Keep choosing every day!

Be different. Don't try to be like anyone else, keep choosing for you.

Be everything that you can be today!

Questions And Tools:

If you keep choosing something, there's something you love about it.
Are you choosing the same type of person because they have the same vibrations you have; so you can go, "See, my judgements are real and true."
Are you willing to receive kindness or are you only willing to receive judgements?
Are you choosing because it's familiar and you can maintain predictability and control it?
What if nothing is broken? What if something has changed and something is now different?
Is your partner capable of what you are asking for? Are you capable of it?
Are you willing to choose to be out of control with relationship?
What if relationship was an adventure?
Don't be predictable; jump out of the routine.
How can you turn your partner on by being you?
Ask questions, don't have expectations and assumptions.
Explore something different. Ask your partner: "What is it you would like to choose that we have not yet chosen?"
What if you were totally comfortable with you?
Where are you not being the energies of trust, allowance, vulnerability, gratitude, honour with yourself and in your relationship?
The only thing that makes you insecure, intimidated, cranky, angry or frustrated is you choosing it. Likewise, the only thing that can make you happy is you choosing it. It's your choice. What are you choosing?

Questions to ask yourself:

"What do I love about this?"
"What am I creating this for?"
"Have we done what we're meant to do together?"
"What would need to change in order for this relationship to work?"
"Dear universe, what else is possible?"

Questions you can ask your partner:

"Where are we at?"
"What would we like to create?"
"What next?"
"Are we happy with where we are heading?"
"What are we not choosing that we could be choosing?"

How many of you are choosing the same type of person so you can control it? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

Everywhere you are choosing the same type of person because it's familiar and you know it and you think it's predictable, will you destroy and uncreate it? What if you started choosing unpredictable? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

What are you choosing insecurity for? What do you gain? What do you lose? What are you proving with insecurity? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

Where are you not trusting you? Where are you not being in allowance of you? Where are you not honouring you? Where are you not being grateful with you? Where are you not being vulnerable with you? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

As Mentioned In This Episode:

Intimate Play Cards For Lovers: https://intimateplaycards.com
Relationships Done Different online with Simone Milasas: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/relationships-done-different_639064055088492044/details
5 Elements of Intimacy class recordings: https://www.simonemilasas.com/offers/JBjkXvx4

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