Psychology In Seattle Podcast Domestic Violence (Cobras vs Pitbulls)(2016 Rerun)
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Nov 27, 2025 Dr. Michelle Finley, a couple and family therapy expert specializing in intimate partner violence, shares her insights into this pressing issue. She differentiates between situational violence and intimate terrorism, highlighting the psychological impact on survivors. The discussion covers the trauma bond, barriers victims face when leaving, and the dynamics of power and control. They also explore treatment paradigms and the importance of tailored interventions, including promising couples-based therapy. Michelle emphasizes the value of family involvement in healing.
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Alcohol Often Amplifies Conflict
- Kirk noted that situational couple violence often links to substance use and poor conflict skills, and reducing drinking can cut fights.
- He recommends avoiding heavy emotional discussions while intoxicated as an immediate harm-reduction step.
Shelter Work: Safety And Extended Support
- Michelle described shelters as secured spaces where survivors often stay weeks or months, sometimes up to a year.
- She explained the shelter's role in safety, therapy, and transitional support for survivors.
Leaving Is The Highest-Risk Moment
- Attempts to leave are the most dangerous time for many survivors, with a high proportion of partner homicides occurring during separation.
- Lethality assessments and coordinated police-shelter responses can save lives.