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Sex, Relationships and Everything in Between - Hannah Witton

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Jan 31, 2022

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Hannah Witton

Hannah Witton, a seasoned Sex and Relationships Educator, Author, and Podcaster, shares her journey into creating intimate content on YouTube. She discusses the importance of early sexual education and how talking about taboo topics can foster healthier relationships. The conversation navigates the challenges of modern sex education, the balance of personal life with public engagement, and effective communication strategies for romantic partnerships. Witton advocates for inclusivity and empathy, emphasizing the interconnectedness of sexuality, mental health, and personal identity.

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ADVICE

Experiment in Your 20s

Avoid specializing too early in life because you have more time than you think.
Society pressures young people to decide on career paths early, but exploring different options in your 20s is valuable.

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Love vs. Compatibility

Love does not conquer all; compatibility matters more in romantic relationships.
Practical factors like distance, work, values, finances, and health impact relationship success.

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Conscious Relationship Choices

Have open conversations about relationship milestones, checking if they align with individual and shared desires.
Don't just follow societal expectations; choose what works for both partners.

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Journey to Sex Education on YouTube

05:45 • 8min

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The Journey of Embracing Sex Education

13:45 • 4min

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Breaking the Stigma: Menstruation and Education

18:04 • 4min

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From Hobby to Career: The YouTube Journey

22:07 • 13min

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Navigating Public Life and Personal Boundaries

34:40 • 14min

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The Challenges of Modern Sex Education

48:40 • 4min

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The Interconnectedness of Sexual Education and Positive Psychology

52:11 • 3min

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Navigating Sex Education and Identity

54:50 • 14min

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Navigating Complexities in Romantic Relationships

01:09:04 • 21min

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Communicative Harmony in Relationships

01:29:44 • 12min

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Rethinking Love and Sexuality

01:41:45 • 23min

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Hannah is a Sex and Relationships Educator, Author and Podcaster whose been making online content for over 10 years. She’s known for having open and taboo busting conversations about sex and relationships, stoma and disability and in this episode we sit down for a chat about how she gained the confidence to start creating sex and relationships content on Youtube, why we should start talking about sex and relationships in our schooling years and how to have healthier romantic relationships.

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