The Place We Find Ourselves

93 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 1

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Jul 5, 2021
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INSIGHT

Identify The Type Before Engaging

  • You must first determine whether the person who harmed you is a garden-variety sinner, wicked, or evil before deciding how to engage them.
  • Adam Young argues each category requires a different relational strategy modeled in Jesus' interactions.
ADVICE

Be Shrewd And Innocent Together

  • Be "as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves" when engaging others by combining discernment with innocence.
  • Use sharp judgment to protect yourself while maintaining moral integrity in relationships.
INSIGHT

Mismatch Causes Harm

  • Engaging a wicked person like a normal sinner leads to frustration and stagnation in the relationship.
  • At worst, it can lead to emotional or actual harm when you offer vulnerability to someone dangerous.
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