Hope Virgo: Vulnerability Is Bravery; Openness Is Strength - R4R 228

Dec 25, 2020

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Hope Virgo embodies true Running for Real spirit. She demonstrates the courage of speaking the truth and being honest with oneself, especially through challenges. Hope has written two books sharing about recovery from eating disorders, mental health campaigner helping young people and employers, and is an advocate for people with eating disorders. In this episode, Hope shares with Tina her story of going through years of anorexia and her journey of recovery, with hopes to shed light on this issue that many people are battling alone. Hope shares that there are so much shame and guilt around anorexia or any eating disorder, that it's difficult for people to accept they have a problem and seek help. She was actually an outpatient at a hospital for 6 months before turning into an inpatient at the hospital and lived there for one year. Then came the daily journey of choosing recovery and choosing to move forward with it every day. Take Aways

Embrace how you're feeling on a day to day basis. Don't distract yourself from your emotions. It's braver to say you're having a hard time, rather than bottling it up.
Once you start showing vulnerability, it helps pave the way for others to feel more comfortable showing vulnerability.
Have a conversation with someone who's struggling and ask them what's going on and how you can support them.
In America, only 6% of people with eating disorders are actually underweight. While eating disorders are there, they might not be physically apparent but are very much there mentally.
Hope believes in the power of community to help people through their mental health and eating disorders rather than being institutionalized.
Be proactive. Have people who help you stay accountable, support networks, and a plan in place.
If you know of someone who's struggling, do other activities with them that are not related to food or going out to eat.

Highlights

"Eating disorders are a mental health issue, not a physical illness." —Hope Virgo
"People with eating disorders come in all shapes and sizes. They can be people of all different races and backgrounds. 25% of cases are actually male. —Hope Virgo
"We all have good days and bad days and throughout life, we work our ways up and down that spectrum. It's about replacing those unhealthy coping mechanisms (whether through food or exercise), and replacing them with healthy things that work (like journaling or going for a walk)." —Hope Virgo

Resources: Hope's Website Hope's Instagram #Dumpthescales Campaign Hope's favourite places to go for Support:

The Hub of Hope (and not just because it has my name!) – it provides a quick way to pull up a list of services in your area. It also has a crisis text message scheme just in case you need someone to talk to
Student Space: Set up by Student Minds has a place for finding support, a place to reach out for support, and blogs to read
The Mix: One of the best sites I have come across! It offers online support, as well as a heap of information. It is mainly for under 25 year olds but there is a lot of great stuff on there!

Eating Disorder Help

BEAT: BEAT: Helpline: 0808 801 0677 Student line: 0808 801 0811 Youth line: 0808 801 0711 - BEAT provides online support and phone support
Anorexia Bulimia Care: another amazing safe place for you to go. And if you are over 18 they also offer a be-friending scheme
First Steps ED: A fantastic charity that focuses massively on early intervention, giving you a space to come and speak out up.
NEDA : (US Based) – this organization has some brilliant blogs as well as a crisis text messenger service and helpline

Support for Families / Carers

FEAST is for parents and carers of those struggling. But again a really valuable space to go for support and to read blogs
YoungMinds: Parent helpline 08088025544

University support

Student Minds: A huge hub of knowledge – have a look at their blogs and their support sections

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