What Churches, Pastors and Parishoners Need to Know with Carol the coach

Today, Carol the Coach interviews Darrel Brazell a pastor from New Hope Recovery Ministry who feels like the church has a lot of work to do to support the many problems a congregation faces in todays world. One of his missions is to connect to church leaders about sexual issues in every church. He would like to speak as a pastor to pastors, ministry leaders, and counselors about the pitfalls of not having training and experience in SA. And he believes that offering grace to a struggling man is essential but so is following up to help him actually do recovery and come clean with his wife. (With a therapeutic full disclosure facilitated by a trained professional). I He believes he can speak directly to this because even with 20+ years of experience and my own background here, he has to constantly fight with himself to not allow his deep compassion for the struggler to prevent him from also recognizing what he has done and is doing in causeing great harm to his wife. He recognizes the impossible forced choice wives have when they gut is saying something is wrong, their husband is saying “everything is fine” and their spiritual community is saying, “Forgive him, trust him,” etc. without the husband demonstrating sincere and effective recovery. He hopes to help our male listerners and their wives by speaking to the wives of men wrestling with sexual addiction issues about why they need to seek out help from CSATs, APSATs, etc. and not assume their clergy are able to adequately address these issues He also recognizes a special population and  would like to speak directly to pastor’s wives who have suspicions or knowledge of their husband’s ography use or other sexual struggles. Today he will be sharing a weath of knowledge to our audience about reaching the masses at the religious level!