Transformation Church How I Found My Soulmate // Relationship Goals: In Real Life (Part 1) // Pastor Michael Todd
Feb 15, 2026
A preacher reframes romance by prioritizing soul health over chemistry. He names four core relational needs: to be seen, soothed, secure, and safe. Cultural myths about love get challenged and personal responsibility is emphasized. A call is made to let God heal inner wounds so real, lasting partnerships can form.
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Valentine's Day That Filled Her Tank
- Michael Todd bought Natalie a thoughtful at-home Valentine's Day: cleared the house, massage, 25 balloons with photos, and strawberries.
- Her tearful reaction showed he gave what she needed, not what Instagram shows.
Goal Is Healthy Relationships
- The goal of relationships is healthy relationships, not just being in relationships.
- Michael Todd emphasizes that healthy relationships come from healthy individuals built through self-awareness and surrender.
Soul Health Drives Relationship Success
- Soul health (mind, will, emotions) is the foundation for all relationship success.
- Michael Todd defines the soul as mind, will, and emotions and says self-awareness plus surrender produce a healthy soul.