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Anticipation, Not Outcomes, Drives Engagement
- Anticipation of matches delivers dopamine without needing real dates or closure.
- That intermittent reward structure sustains engagement independent of actual romantic outcomes.
Volume Over Depth Produces Burnout
- Mass usage, multiple apps, and 'numbers game' advice turned people into disposable options.
- High volume matching increased dates but reduced depth and real connection.
Business Goals Clash With Romantic Goals
- Apps optimize for engagement and revenue, not necessarily users' romantic goals.
- Premium features accelerate exposure but don't guarantee real-life compatibility.