Modern Wisdom #567 - Dr Jonathan Shedler - 14 Psychoanalytical Concepts To Understand Yourself
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Dec 19, 2022 
Dr. Jonathan Shedler, a clinical professor of psychiatry at UC, unpacks the depths of our psyche and the hidden struggles we face. He discusses the paradox of moral masochism, shedding light on how suffering can mistakenly boost our sense of worth. The conversation dives into projection, revealing how we often misplace our undesirable traits onto others, and the dangers of black-and-white thinking in relationships. Shedler also explores performative empathy in modern society and how reaction formation complicates our true emotions, encouraging greater self-awareness.
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Moral Masochism
- Moral masochism involves deriving self-esteem from suffering, creating a martyr complex.
- This often manifests as depression and resistance to positive change.
False Self
- A false self is a borrowed identity adopted to meet others' needs, hindering self-discovery.
- This can lead to feelings of emptiness, even with external success.
Transference
- Transference involves responding to others as if they were someone from our past.
- We apply old relationship patterns to new people, often recreating past dynamics.