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Why Bars Are A Bad Default
- Bars and clubs create high threat states for both sexes, so they are often poor places to meet women.
- Meeting in shared-purpose groups shifts people into an in-group mindset and lowers fear and approach anxiety.
Opposing Threats Drive Social Anxiety
- Women unconsciously assess strangers for physical threat, while men fear sexual humiliation and rejection.
- Those opposing threat heuristics make random approaches in bars emotionally costly for both sexes.
Make Dating An Extension Of Your Social Life
- Make your dating life an extension of your social life by joining group activities you already enjoy.
- List things you like, pick the ones you can do with women, and join those groups to meet people naturally.