Sexology EP350 - Unlocking Pleasure: Orgasms, Toys, & Communication
Sep 5, 2023
Sophie Saint Thomas, a journalist and author, discusses multiple orgasms, the diversity of sexual experiences, and the importance of focusing on pleasure beyond orgasms. They explore the role of psychological arousal and the pressure to have explosive orgasms. The podcast also touches on men faking orgasms, the use of handheld sex toys, and the significance of communication in queer relationships.
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Mindset Often Drives Orgasm Intensity
- Psychological arousal, context, and environment often determine orgasm intensity more than stimulation type.
- Sophie Saint Thomas stresses state of mind and novelty (strangers, kink) can amplify orgasmic experience.
Keep Sex Fresh With Variety And Scheduling
- Try new things, schedule intimate time, and prioritize variety to sustain desire in long-term relationships.
- Sophie Saint Thomas recommends exploration, porn-watching, kink, or planned sex to prevent sex from becoming roommate-like.
Women Often Fake Orgasms Due To Pressure
- Many women Sophie has known faked orgasms across relationships for years due to pressure and conditioning.
- She advises empathy and not harsh guilt while encouraging finding ways to actually have orgasms.