
The Thomistic Institute How To Be A Good Friend: Combatting Envy And Apathy And Exercising Love And Wisdom | Prof. W. Scott Cleveland
May 13, 2025
W. Scott Cleveland, an Associate Professor of Philosophy and Catholic Studies at the University of Mary, shares profound insights on friendship, ethics, and the virtues that sustain it. He explores Aristotle's concept of eudaimonia, highlighting how true happiness enhances relationships. The discussion delves into the challenges of envy and apathy, emphasizing the need for charitable love. Cleveland also outlines practical ways to nurture friendships through prudence and constructive feedback, revealing the moral foundations essential for genuine connections.
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Friends Aid Growth and Success
- Good friends help us know ourselves, avoid mistakes, and accompany us through life’s challenges.
- Friendship enhances our capacity for noble deeds and completing important tasks.
Ultimate Friendship is with God
- Perfect fulfillment requires eternal friendship with God beyond this life.
- Virtuous friendship in this life is necessary but imperfect fulfillment.
Love Friends for Their Sake
- Love your friends for their own sake, not for pleasure or usefulness.
- Charity means willingly desiring the good of others as ends in themselves.




