The Art of Growth

Instinct Stacking and Pairings

Feb 10, 2025
Dive into the fascinating world of instincts and their impact on personality! The discussion covers instinct stacking and how our experiences shape behavior. Explore the balance between community service and personal fulfillment, highlighting the emotional rollercoaster of helping others. Discover the difference between intrinsic motivations like reward and relief, and learn how to embrace all instincts for better self-awareness. With engaging stories and insights, listeners are invited to reflect on their own instinctual dynamics.
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ANECDOTE

Order as Reward or Relief

  • One student found order and cleanliness rewarding, indicating a strong self-preservation instinct.
  • Others experience it as relief, enabling them to focus on more energizing activities like social interaction.
ADVICE

Reward vs. Relief

  • Differentiate between reward systems and relief systems within your instincts.
  • A reward system truly fulfills, while a relief system simply eases tension.
ADVICE

Identifying Instinctual Rewards

  • Consider whether activities bring reward or relief.
  • Reflect on experiences like adventurous hikes, noting whether they energize you or simply bring a sense of completion.
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