Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

186: Can I Get My Entitled Teen to Change?

Sep 24, 2024
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Lisa
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Reena
Dr. Lisa, a seasoned psychologist, teams up with parenting expert Reena to tackle the tricky issue of entitled teens. They emphasize the importance of setting high expectations and assigning meaningful responsibilities to foster empathy. The duo dives into effective communication strategies and the delicate balance between authority and understanding. They also stress the need for parental self-care, ensuring caregivers can support their teens while maintaining their own well-being. Tune in for actionable insights!
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ANECDOTE

A Success Story

  • Dr. Damour recalls a formerly entitled teen patient who blossomed into a well-adjusted adult.
  • This anecdote emphasizes that entitlement can be a temporary phase.
ADVICE

Handling Entitlement

  • Treat teens' entitlement as a temporary phase.
  • Engage with entitled behavior as little as possible.
ADVICE

Connecting Chores and Privileges

  • Link privileges to fulfilling responsibilities, like chores.
  • If chores aren't completed, restrict privileges for a set period.
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