The Psychology of Depression and Anxiety - Dr. Scott Eilers How to stop thinking about the things that stress you out - a strategy for defeating rumination
Mar 6, 2026
They define rumination and explain why trying to force thoughts away backfires. The show introduces limited cognitive capacity as the key to breaking repetitive thinking. Learn the three variables that make distraction work: stimulation, stress, and novelty. Practical tips include choosing engaging, low-stress, moderately novel activities to redirect attention and reduce intrusive thinking.
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Limited Cognitive Capacity Explains Why Rumination Persists
- Limited cognitive capacity means your conscious mind can hold only a small, stable amount of information at once.
- Dr. Scott Eilers illustrates this with trying to list every object in a room and forgetting early items once you exceed ~10–15 things.
Get Your Mind Off Worry By Putting It On Something Else
- You cannot directly stop a thought but you can move your attention onto something else because attention resource is limited.
- Dr. Scott Eilers recommends deliberately shifting focus to a different task so the original rumination loses access to your limited attention.
Brains Prefer Stimulation So Boring Distractions Fail
- Minds naturally orient toward stimulation, so boring distractions fail because the brain returns to the interesting worry.
- Dr. Scott Eilers compares it to giving a toddler a more stimulating activity to stop drawing on walls.
