Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

I'll Do Better Tomorrow - The Virtue of Patience

Feb 12, 2026
Stories about investing small amounts of time to build warmer in-law relationships. Practical examples of waiting calmly with kids to avoid power struggles. Tips on using short family catchphrases to reinforce identity and spark connection. Reminders that attention and presence create lasting bonds.
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ADVICE

Schedule One-On-One Time With In-Laws

  • Do invest regular one-on-one time with those marrying into your family to build warmth and trust.
  • Give attention deliberately because it signals value and shapes future in-law relationships.
ANECDOTE

Breakfasts To Build In-Law Bonds

  • Justin took his son-in Jared to breakfast for an hour and a half to build connection.
  • He plans to repeat the breakfasts regularly to set a precedent with future sons-in-law.
INSIGHT

Attention As Relational Currency

  • Attention functions like a currency in relationships and buys goodwill over time.
  • Small, regular investments now shape how people relate to you later.
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